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meowgon:

iambickilometer:

eldritchseer:

filialpail:

Where Karkat was eating him out.

I hate you. I fucking hate you. Fuck you, tumblr. Fuck you. Fuck this trans fad. You will never know how hard it is to be trans, it’s not a fucking joke, it’s not there for your porn. Jesus fucking christ I can’t stand this, seeing that made me feel physically ill. You know nothing about trans people. No truly trans person would ever let anyone near their sexual organs before surgery. Jesus CHRIST. Wrapping bandaids around your chest is NOT A BINDER. People actually KILL THEMSELVES over body dysphoria and just wanting to be seen as their right sex. But I guess that means nothing to you, you just want the character to be ~different~, like being trans somehow makes you ~special~. It doesn’t make you fucking special. It’s a fucking birth defect you absolute morons. It is one of the most soul crushing things a person could ever go through. These people try their whole lives to do everything possible to just be seen as their right sex, and then you go and draw porn of them engaging in sexual acts with their wrong body.

Jesus fucking christ. You know nothing. Fuck you. Fuck you so much.

But then again the new fad now on tumblr is to be trans. Everyone is trans ^_^_^ omg lol i like being called by a male pronoun I’m so trans ^_^_^ omg i wore mens clothes today that means i’m a man omg ^_^_^ omg you better call me a man even though i don’t try to pass at all and experience zero dysphoria but i ~identify as a man~ that means i’m a man ^_^_^ lol no it’s not like i want to go on hormones or get surgery fuck the binary \m/

I hate you. I hate you so much. You have made an absolute mockery out of true transexuals. This is why it takes YEARS for trans people to get surgery, because of shit like this. Because no one takes them seriously. You think you’re being open minded by making him trans, but you’re not. You’re being just as cissexist as the next moron, by treating him as ‘ftm’ instead of just a regular guy. Like it’s a fucking fetish. Like it’s an identity.

Fuck you.

…. WOW fuck you. I didn’t even have the patience to read much of the bullshit followin it, but I know a lot of pre-op trans men, and they have varying levels of comfort with below-the-belt action, and NONE of it invalidates their trans* status. Don’t fucking speak for them as a whole.

I’ll let my followers field the rest, if they can.

so like who went and made you the expert on every trans person everywhere? i’ve got a million and one objections here but let’s do this in order:

No truly trans person would ever let anyone near their sexual organs before surgery.

hahahaha fuck you. being sexual has been such a huge struggle for me but the fact is i have sexual organs and i use them! and they are not surgically attached! because bottom surgery is expensive and difficult and honestly the results don’t particularly enthuse me. does this mean i’m not ~truly trans~? what does that make me, then? because this fucking beard i’m sporting seems pretty indicative of the gender i’m presenting. (which is not to say that lacking a beard takes away one’s trans status, i just happen to use mine to present male)

is it so absurd to you that trans people make peace with their bodies and their sexualities? that we could want to deal with our dysphoria that way? i am highly dysphoric, and probs always will be. but i’ve got a working arrangement. other trans people have different levels and expressions of dysphoria. and that has no bearing on their gender!

It is one of the most soul crushing things a person could ever go through. 

yeah god forbid trans people ever be happy or comfortable with themselves

These people try their whole lives to do everything possible to just be seen as their right sex, and then you go and draw porn of them engaging in sexual acts with their wrong body.

except for the ones who don’t have a “right” sex? also fuck you again, no one gets to dictate our bodies are wrong except for us, individually. i for one get enough of that from myself. 

being trans is not about shame. it’s not about suffering. yes we commonly experience shame and suffering but it is not our defining feature. i would so much rather be depicted joyfully in porn than read another fucking article about how inferior my existence is, oh how it sucks to be a trans person, we must all pity them because their lives are defective and they’re not whole and they’re definitely not sexual beings ever! god forbid they get pleasured without undergoing ~the full surgery~

You have made an absolute mockery out of true transexuals. This is why it takes YEARS for trans people to get surgery, because of shit like this. 

no, it takes years for trans people to get surgery because the fucking standards of care, actually. also because it’s fucking expensive. blaming trans people for their own oppression is basically the definition of being a cissexist tool.

i don’t know if you’re trans or cis or whatever, but clearly you need to take a big fucking step back and recognise that your experiences are not everyone else’s. Trans people don’t have to prove anything to you. Our bodies are ours alone, our identities are ours, our histories and experiences and desires and sexualities (or lack thereof) are ours, and no one gets to decide which are “right” and “wrong” except ourselves, individually. Full. Fucking. Stop.

and you know what? it makes me feel fucking validated to know that someone thinks my body is attractive. it makes me feel fucking validated to know someone views my body as a body capable and deserving of sexuality. i don’t need your vitriol sending me back to the days of revulsion and self-hatred (and self-harm) just because you don’t think i’m a ~true~ trans person.

reblogging this for the beautiful smackdown

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